Help.
So my husband and I have been married for 3 and a half years, been dating since 2015. He and I got married and moved in with my mom and two younger brothers. March of this year we moved out into a studio like apartment with our 2 pups. My aunt redid part of her home and renovated it as an Airbnb so we live there now. Rent is like $1600 but utilities are included, enclosed backyard for the pups, safe neighborhood and my aunt technically is next door so I have that safety net of my family being so close if needed. Fast forward, of course as life happens, debt happens and we have kind of fallen into a deep hole, trying to make it check by check. My husbands idea to fix this is to move in his grandmothers house where we won’t have to pay anything but cable. The issue with that is the fact of it being a shotgun house; there’s no privacy or doors to the rooms. And of course it’s grandmas house so everyone wants to come over. I understand him wanting to take this move because it’ll help us hugely financially but my mental state cannot seem to get a grip on this. I’ve came up with some plans so we can stay comfortable in our own space but he wants to still make the move. I need help. Idk how I’m going to deal with this. The lack of privacy and comfort is going to drive me. He says it’s only for a year, year and a half at most so we can save up and pay off some debt… but idk. Help….
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