26F and single

The dating scene is ridiculous and i can’t get back on those dating apps they never work out for me. Starting to feel a bit hopeless in the dating department. My family wants me to have kids and get married but it’s easier said than done. It starts to feel humiliating when people i know asks why I’m still single etc because it always leads to judgment. The dating scene is so brutal. “Men” will have kids with you but don’t want to marry you because to them it’s “too much” of a commitment.. which makes no sense because kids are permanent?? It’s backwards. I know it’s not everyone but damn. What do I gotta do? Go to Home Depot on a Saturday morning ??