Hello! (Sorry for the long explanation!) I am a first time mom to a precious little girl. She was born April 23rd and has so much personality already. Does any other parent struggle with anxiety about their baby? I get anxious that I don't do enough for her, or that I ask for too much help. I'm basically a single mother at the moment and I barely put her down unless to let someone else hold her. If someone else has her I feel so guilty that it's not me and I have an urge to take her back so the person doesn't feel like I'm taking advantage of them. Is this normal to feel? I get such a guilty feeling if I take a shower, eat, or even nap for an hour and have someone else take care of her even if they offer. I just want to know im not alone as I don't have any mom friends, and the few friends I have I haven't seen in months.