Husband vs boyfriend or me

Lori • I'm 32, three beautiful kids. Looking for friends ❤

My husband and I recently split up. One of our biggest issues was the fact that I couldn't get aroused. It was like my sex drive just died and it's been years.

Well I met a guy, he's not a boyfriend but I do have feelings, along with those feeling I feel myself getting excited. I haven't slept with him cause it's too soon but I take time to masturbate and I can't have an orgasm.

Does anyone have an advice on what I can do to wake my sex drive back up????