Thinking of leaving

So my bf and I have been together a year and I'm not happy anymore. If I tell him I don't feel comfortable with something/someone he acts like I'm just trying to control him (not true at all!). He doesn't communicate well with me it's mostly me doing all the talking. I don't feel like he respects me or my feelings. It's gotten to the point where I don't even want to talk to him about my feelings or anything of importance because I feel like he'll either not care or just get upset about it and blow it out of proportion. I truly love this man and want it to work but I can't handle how he acts towards me anymore. He say's he loves me but his actions show something totally different. I just don't know what to do anymore.