I feel emotionally tired.

I don't know what to do. My husband is so hot and cold at times that it leaves me drained. Last night after 2 days of spending great time together at a fancy resort for my birthday, we end up fighting again. So a Lil back story. He wasn't well yesterday and kept on telling me that he wants to get home and rest. We got home and then he was like ' I wanna do you but I am tired'. This I understand since he has a cold. I turned off the light and we cuddled to sleep. After 10 mins he is like I can't sleep...I am gonna go watch something for half an hr. and come back. He didn't come back until after 3-4 hours at night I went out to check on him. He was watching tv... drinking energy drink...eating junk. I came back to the room and he followed me. I asked him to stay out since he was not sleepy. I just said..it's okay if he wants to stay up late watching something by his own. He thought I was mad at him. Tbh I was but I was also unable to sleep and annoyed at his behaviour. He asked me to sleep with him and I just couldn't that time. He got super mad and said things like 'what do you want from me. Do I need permission to get out of my room now'. I didnt say anything. Now he is not talking to me. Giving me the silent treatment. This is how it usually goes. I don't know what I am doing wrong. I seriously hate my life.