Sensitive clitoris

Is this normal? (Read bellow)

Hello ladies! I would like to know if having a sensitive clitoris is normal. So what happens is that whenever I’m with my boyfriend and he tries to go down on me it hurts. Even if I’m already wet, I feel like I don’t need so much pressure on my clit … especially in the beginning. I’ve told him that it hurts if he does it like that and that I would like him to start a little softer and slower, but every time he gets frustrated and says “he’s barely touching my clit with his tongue” and “how could that possibly hurt?”. I know he doesn’t mean to be rude, but he’s just impatient and gets frustrated easily because I tell him I’m not enjoying it. He’s my first and only, he, on the other hand, has had more experience with other women … that has me thinking: am I the only one who doesn’t like such hard pressure on the clitoris at the begging? It’s starting to get extremely upsetting to me because we’ve been together for some time now and I haven’t been able to finish with him once.

Do you have any tips for a better experience with oral sex? And any tips on how I should communicate them?

Thanks!