Help please

So my daughters dad has been horrendous from the get go. As soon as he was born he walked out and didn’t have much do with her only when it suited him maybe once every few months . Then he had a big change of heart and decided to get back together . However he doesn’t financially contribute or look after her . We love separately so I’m still not able to return to work , I’m struggling financially while he is doing fine . I moved an hour away to be near him and I don’t drive . Im isolated from family and friends . It’s starting to take its toll on me now . Im struggling with my emotions and I’m lonely and I know nobody here and I’m struggling financially and in a lot of debt. He doesn’t take me seriously and when I get upset he says I must have bipolar but it’s the situation. I want him to help me more . Im starting to spiral and it’s all getting too much I’m feeling really low and just helpless and don’t know what to do next ? I just want to get on my feet and be near my family but it’s not possible. Any advice ? Thanks