Husband is lying??

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So my husband and I have been together for 5 years. So recently I’ve been figuring out that he’s been lying to me. So he takes my baby to daycare every morning. I noticed that he doesn’t brush her teeth in the morning. I noticed this because when I brush her teeth at night I remember how I put the toothbrush and when I come home that day I noticed it is still in the same spot. One day I wrapped tissue around her toothbrush a certain way. So when I got home I noticed it was still wrapped the same way I had it. When I pick her up from daycare her teeth doesn’t really look brushed and they are yellow and her breath smells like it hasn’t been brushed. I know this because on the weekends when I’m off when I brush her teeth they are not yellow and her breath isn’t bad by the end of the day. This has happened several of times. Also, my husband recently just quit his job and he is supposed to be doing DoorDash in the mean time until he get a job. When I looked on “Find my IPhone” just to see if he is safe wherever he is supposed to be. I noticed that he is still at home. So I texted him and asked him questions like “how’s delivery going” and “Are they giving out good tips” and when I got home I asked him how many deliveries did you have that day. But on the Find my iPhone he was at home the whole time! Idk how well the app updates. But maybe I’m overreacting. But I can’t pay these bills by myself and I’m he is supposed to be working to help.

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Sounds like you need to sit down and have a talk with him.

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My boyfriend and I use the find my iPhone app and it updates in real time and is pretty accurate. It’s only glitched a handful of times and put our locations like a couple yards away from our actual location but it updates. He’s lying about multiple things.

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Why does it sound like you can’t just talk to him. He is your husband, you are supposed to communicate things to each other. Instead of doing your investigative work with your kid why don’t you straight up tell him what you wrote here. Instead of checking his location and not telling him about it, how about communicating that to him? How can it be easier for you to ask stranger on the internet these questions and not your own husband?

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Clearly you know already that he is lying. Either he’s doing the minimal. Depressed. Or whatever the excuse. He needs to pick up the slack. Temp agency or whatever else. You have stated that you can’t cover the bills on your own so tell him show me what you made this week. Door dash etc has a way to see what was earned. I do child support and custody. Had a client tell me “she forgot” she does door dash daily. No one lives on 1200 the whole year with a bunch of kids. And not on government assistance either. Can’t stand liars. Only way she fessed up was telling her the judge isn’t giving custody to someone who can’t support themselves yet alone the children. There has to be other income you are not telling me. Had to press it over and over again. Tell him you want to see his doors dash because you have to pay the bills. Or he needs to supplement the income another way because this isn’t cutting it. Don’t even mention that you are tracking him because he will throw it at you that you don’t trust him blah blah blah. Maybe he needs therapy or he needs to walk dogs or temp agency at a ware house and you already know he’s doing the minimal so you might as well do it yourself. You already know he’s lying. God only knows what else he’s lying about. Changing her underwear. Bathing her. Feeding her etc. just be prepared he’s gonna be defensive. Throw it back at you that it’s your fault or something. Good luck.

Husband is lying??

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