Am I a bitch for just trying to be realistic ?

Tell me what y’all think after reading this post. I just can’t even fathom how we could possibly make this work without struggling. My bf does service work with his dad, they usually work in another town that’s about an hour away from where we currently live. He’s been working on this house that is apparently for rent and he said it’s “cheaper than he thought” and he wants to rent it and us move there like soon. The rent for this house he wants is DOUBLE what we are paying now. $1600 a month. It’s a nice area so the rent is expensive I don’t see how that’s “cheaper than he thought” but whatever, he said HE wants to move there but if we do, I have to put the kids in daycare and get a job to split the rent with him otherwise we won’t be able to afford it. I’ve been a SAHM with our first child for 2.5 years, I’m currently 7 months pregnant with our 2nd so I won’t even be able to work that much longer and if he can’t afford to pay the rent on his own for a bit then I think it’s just not a good idea to move there. I’ll be having a repeat c section so I literally will not be able to work for at LEAST 2 months even if I wanted to. But he legit expects me to just pop this baby out, throw our newborn child in daycare, and get right back to work to help with the rent and bills. He thankfully has never had to worry about child care costs because again I’ve been a SAHM for years while he works. I told him that’s another thing we will have to take into consideration before doing this, we would be paying for daycare for 2 small children which is going to be an INSANE amount especially in that area. The cost of child care alone will be close to if not more than the rent. We also only have ONE vehicle that he has to take to work because he goes to multiple different job sites. That one vehicle is gonna have to be responsible for getting 2 people back and forth to work every day as well as 2 children back and forth to day care every day. He always gets off work at different times, he keeps the car so how am I going to find a job with a schedule that fits around his irregular work schedule and fit the kids day care schedule as well? There would be days that he works late and I end up stuck at work then the kids would end up stuck at daycare. That just won’t work. I told him this and he said that I would just need to get a night job. So he wants me to work ALL night, then come home and be with the kids ALL day. When the hell would I sleep?? I physically would not be able to do that and he wouldn’t do that either so why should I? I told him I don’t want to do this because besides all those issues, after paying half the rent the rest of my paycheck would be going to day care (and still may not even be enough to cover that) I would be working for practically nothing. That’s not fair. Id be working to split my paycheck between rent and daycare then left broke. Not to mention I want to give my body time to heal after my c section and bond with the new baby. I just don’t know what he expects from me. He literally has not even mentioned this idea until this week and he is HEAD SET on it. Like for real wants to move there 100%. He’s now pissed at me because I don’t want to do it and I don’t think it’s a good idea. I just feel like I’ll be the one getting the shit end of the stick, I feel like it’s not fair to me and im going to ultimately be sacrificing more for something HE wants to do. He won’t have to change anything by moving there but I will. He’s not that one that will have to choose between adjusting his schedule around his job and the kids or choosing to sacrifice my sleep by working all night, he won’t have to feel guilty for being away from the kids to work, he won’t have to pop a baby out and go right back to work, I don’t want to move out of town, I don’t want to put our kids in daycare that young, especially not my newborn daughter, I don’t want to struggle with transportation to and from my job and risk being fired because he has to keep the car for his job, i don’t want to be a walking zombie by working all night long and watching kids all day, I just don’t see how we could even make it work if we tried. We would drown. We already barely scrape by with the life we have and he wants to just up and move to another town out of nowhere that’s gonna cost twice as much plus adding childcare on top of it which we’ve never had to do. I don’t understand his thought process. Hes mad at me and said he don’t see what the issue is or “what the hell would be hard for me about this”. He’s legit acting like we can just do something like this and make a decision over night. Am I just being a pessimistic bitch for trying to be real and take all these things into consideration? This would be a huge adjustment and an even bigger responsibility to maintain. It would be a LOT and probably more than we could even handle. Idk what the hell hes thinking.