Should I pay her?

My friend invited me to the movies last night. She is going with about 4 other friends also. She gets 5 free tickets a month and hasn’t used any of them in a long time so she has 30 free tickets right now. Today she couldn’t find a babysitter so she cancelled and said she’d just get the tickets refunded. She text me a couple hours later that actually she does have a baby sitter now and she only wants to go to the theatre that’s by her boyfriends house now (it’s an hour away from us) even tho he’s not going with us.. I don’t understand. But he’s weird about her going out. I told her I’m actually not going to go because I can’t have 2 hours of drive time when there’s a theatre 3 minutes away from us plus 2 hours for the movie. I have an 8 week old puppy. He can’t hold his pee for 4 hours yet. She’s so mad and said I owe her money for the ticket because my ticket for some reason is the only one she can’t get refunded back? Am I wrong for telling her I’m not paying her cash money for the ticket because I know she can get it refunded (she was going to get them refunded when she initially cancelled on me but all of a sudden she can’t get it refunded now since I’m the one that doesn’t want to go) and it’s a free ticket either way. She didn’t pay for the tickets they would just add a free ticket to her account again. I’m just so tired of always having to work around her new boyfriends requirements in order to hangout