Herpes or HPV or ingrown

A few months ago I tested positive for herpes with a score of 1.41 and then got retested earlier than they said I should but it went lower, to 1.13 and my friend that works in a clinic says that it should go higher or remain the same not go lower and that means false positive. However I had 2 paps come back at Ascus the low grade range of abnormality nothing to concern. People also say that could be HPV that causes irregular paps, doctors are saying not to worry and just wait until next year for the 3rd testing. Which is frustrating cause just test me. I also had another herpes test months before the positive test came up which was a swab for a ingrown that look very similar that was on my vulva it came back negative and the doctors told me while swabbing that it looked just like a simple ingrown hair. But doctors refuse to test me cause I have no major outbreaks which is frustrating. This was a ingrown hair this morning and its in between my leg and my actual vagina, I will admit sometimes I dont wear panties and I know it could be friction. I also have a skin disease called hidradenitis suppurativa which can form on the vagina as well but this doesnt look to much like it. But Im just scared and confused.