Is this disrespectful or am I over reacting

Partner has TikTok we don’t follow each other - we don’t follow each other on any social media

Today he came up on TikTok as someone I may know so I clicked his profile and looked at who he is following. Many many sexy soft porn pages. Girls flashing nipples, bums or camel toes (on purpose).

My partner gets uncomfortable if a semi naked man is shown in a film and says he hates me seeing things like that (it winds him up-his words).

He didn’t want me going to a particular gym as he said it was full of buff men and they might try it on with me and I’ll leave him!!!

Also last year I found that he had been watching porn and confronted him (I have no issue but it can’t be one rule for him and one rule for me) he denied denied denied.

Do I bring up to him about him following these soft porn pages on TikTok or let it slide.

I don’t really know what to think or feel anymore. I am suffering with bad low self esteem and anxiety and low energy low confidence every since having our baby two years ago (all this stuff started roughly 6months after having baby) but only just see the TikTok stuff.

Advice? Constructive criticism or advice?