Me and my babies father are no longer together and even though we aren't dating we're on decent terms. The baby will mainly be with me, he will have him every other weekend. He hasn't gotten anything for the baby not even a pair of socks and today I was out shopping for the baby and i texted him to ask if he could help me by the baby a car seat and stroller and he basically told me no.. That we should both get our own. But he knows that i don't make a lot of money and that i really need his help with big purchases such as this.. And the way i see it is.. If he lives with me and will be with me 85% of the time why cant we just share for a few weeks until I can get another one. I just find it really messed up that he knows i need help and he doesn't want to help..