Ever had to let go of someone?

Question

Have you ladies ever had to let go of someone? Not because they were a bad person but simply because yll were on 2 different levels. It sucks! I kind of felt this coming for the past few weeks but ignored it. I know I’ll shake back but I already miss him and it will take time! It wasn’t serious but he was someone that I saw as potential and I was really feelings him ….  But I came to the realization we were on 2 different levels!

Answer

Yes, called off our engagement and it was the hardest decision we had to make. We were still very good friends afterwards and had lots of love for each other, but when it came to pre marital counseling, it was noted that we were on certain pages with some things that neither of us were willing to compromise or meet in the middle for at the end of the day. Hated it and still hate it to this day, but it was a very wise and healthy choice for the both of us. As cliche as it is, time really does help heal, and sometimes we just have to accept that at the end of the day who we really want in our lives are either with us for a season to help us grow/teach us things or the other way around. I promise there is always a light at the end of the tunnel, even when it feels like you’re in a pit.

Answer

Yep, my ex, he wasn’t bad at all, he just wanted to do all the next level relationship stuff,marriage kids mortgage etc, but he didn’t/couldn’t do all the things that are required to support those next steps, save money, hold down a job, makes the sacrifices you have to for these things to happen, I left him, it was hard the first few months, but we both got over it moved on, got mortgages, got married, had kids…. We were both destined to do it…. Just with different people in different time scales

Ever had to let go of someone?

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