Bf constantly has an excuse to avoid baby shopping
So I’m 8 months pregnant, baby will be here next month and my bf has not bought ANYTHING the entire pregnancy. We are not prepared in the slightest. I have a few things I’ve been given by family members but still have a lottt of things to get before baby is here. I’ve been nagging my bf telling him we have to start shopping soon and getting things ready but he always says he’s “broke” when I ask (but then has money for anything else) or he just has some kind of excuse to avoid it and puts it off every single time I bring it up. His most recent reason for not buying the baby anything is because he’s “more worried about saving up and finding somewhere else for him to live”. We both still currently have our own places. He has a house that he rents and I have an apartment, the plan was for me to move into his house before the baby came because there’s more space there but his landlord sold the house without warning and he has to be out at the end of his lease which is the month after baby will be born. It would be pointless for me to move in there then us all have to move again that soon with a newborn which is why I’m still living in my apartment. I just renewed my 6 month lease last month and have told my boyfriend multiple times that he is more than welcome to come live with me at the end of his lease and he can save up money while he lives with me and we will find somewhere eventually to move together. I feel like that makes the most sense right ? Him needing to “save money for somewhere else to live” would kinda be a valid excuse IF he had no other living option but he does.. with me. Well he is not interested in doing that and said he does not want to live in an apartment he wants a house and that my apartment is too small and he doesn’t like the area etc etc just more excuses but I feel like he doesn’t really have room to be picky right now. I was willing to move in with him so what’s the difference in him moving in with me? I’m offering suggestions/temporary solutions and hes just being so stubborn.🙄
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