I have a lot on my mind but I’ll cut straight to it.. i have two small children and bringing a third child into the mix is way too much for my husband and I to handle right now. I’ve had the surgical method at 18 with my bf (now husband) at the time and it was pretty traumatic. We were young & broke so I couldn’t afford to be numbed. I’m back in the same position 9-10 years later & I’m still pretty traumatized from the surgical method. My appointment is scheduled and set for the pill but I am so anxious and scared. I do have a high tolerance for pain & was able to labor and deliver twice, naturally.

Can someone tell me step by step what to expect?

Are the cramps equivalent to contractions? I’ve read a lot about women experiencing diarrhea or vomiting from the pill… how do I skip that part😭 someone help🏳️