How to deal with Constant Refusal?

Question

LO is 4.5 years old and constantly refuses to do activities or learn something new. Whether it’s dancing for Fun in the living room or trying to show her how to ride a bike, she’s a Debbie Downer. It kills the mood all the time and when she gets the positive reinforcement, she keeps saying no￼, pretty much to leave her alone! I don’t understand, my kid just likes playing with her dolls the most. I think she’s missing out a lot for her age because she refuses to take part . Is this even normal? Or it’s her personality?

Answer

She might just not be interested in that stuff. 
My son is 4 and acts a similar way. However, he also shows many signs of being on the autism spectrum and we’re waiting for an evaluation. Instead of calling your child a Debby downer and saying she ruins the mood, maybe take a good look at her behavior and see if she could possibly be neurodivergent.

Answer

You can’t force her to like things you like or activities you want to do. If she’s content playing with her dolls, leave her be. There is nothing wrong with a child wanting to be alone and play their way. Not every child is extroverted and engaging. Some want quiet and peace. She sounds fine. If you’re truly concerned, speak with your pediatrician.

Answer

Could very well be her personality. Some kids are introverted and like playing alone. 
I’d also research signs of autism in young girls and see if anything rings true to your experience (such as liking to line up objects and playing alone, need for routines, sensory challenges), etc.

How to deal with Constant Refusal?

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