Is it OK for your partner to have all their coworkers number?

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Your partner is at work and they tell you Work is slow due to work being slow t￼hey find a dark corner in the back of the building and fall asleep in the car with another coworker of the opposite sex. Later on that day you then ￼find out they now have that coworkers number and they NEVER HAD IT BEFORE  🤔
Back story I find a few female coworkers numbers in my bf phone I find this an issue  KEEP READING YOU’LL SEE WHY . My partner tells me he has all coworkers phone number that is something that everyone has due to the type of job that they have ,everyone has everyone’s number. Yes I see male and female works numbers that’s not a problem . The problem is when it comes to female coworker is he can’t just keep it at a work level. He wants to go and search for them on Instagram and follow them on Instagram and Snapchat ..yeah yeah social media is social media and  is not supposed to matter in your relationship but we are in 2023 and social media means something lol .
I guess I’m saying please tell me I’m not crazy. It is weird that you fall asleep in the dark corner with a female coworker and then now all of a sudden you guys are texting and you never had their number before. Please tell me I’m not crazy if I’m crazy t￼han I’m crazy.

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Having been phone numbers and social media of your coworkers is not weird. 
Sleeping on the job is.

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Why is he falling asleep in a dark corner with a female?? That’s odd to me. I don’t find the number thing bad because my husband has male and female co workers in his phone, as long there’s no sneaky shit going on then I don’t care.

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You should definitely look deeper into this “sleeping” it’s not a normal thing to do when you’re in a committed relationship

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You’re crazy for being with someone you don’t trust. This isn’t worth your time or energy. You will constantly be questioning and going through his phone if you stay together. That’s exhausting and not healthy. 
Having coworkers numbers isn’t the issue here. Even having their social media. 
Him sleeping on the job is fucking weird and inappropriate (unless he’s like a doctor or firefighter that does 4 12hr shifts back to back…).

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I have all my coworkers’ numbers (male & female) and most of them on social media. That part isn’t really a big deal. The part id be pissed about is falling asleep at work with a female in a dark corner.

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You’re not crazy at all. Chins would be spinning but that’s cause I’m crazy 😂

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You’re not crazy, that’s definitely weird and unacceptable.

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It’s weird to fall asleep at work. It’s not weird to have your coworkers numbers or follow them on social media. It’s toxic to look through your partners phone to see who’s in his contact list.

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If you dont trust him, dont be with him. 
I dont know what he does or what his work is, but sleeping alone or with anyone at work would be weird as fuck for me. 
To answer your original question, no I dont find it weird to have co workers phone numbers. I don't find it weird to have one and I dont find it weird to have all. Both are normal.

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It seems normal to me to have all your coworker’s phone numbers, like that can be a way to communicate, ask for help, or ask to cover shifts possibly. I don’t even think it’s weird to have them on social media. The concerning part would be based on what kind of conversations he is having with them. If you had seen texts that sounded like they are more than just coworkers that could be bad.

Is it OK for your partner to have all their coworkers number?

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