What should I do?
So I finally got the answer I’ve been waiting on for a very long time now. Which idk if I should cry or be happy to tell you the truth. I’m all up in my emotions right now so I really would like some advice.
My “fiancé” and son’s dad has been sitting around here for months playing on his phone. Games, fb, videos, whatever he can to not connect with us. I’ve also complained about it but it didn’t get me anywhere for a while. Well today, he decided not to feed himself breakfast or lunch and we went out to a festival with my dad and son. We was looking for the taco truck but they ended up not being there so we left hungry. Which was our own faults because there was a ton of other food. Well after my dad left and we got home he asked what I wanted to eat. So I suggested subway. Well that wasn’t good enough. So then I suggest chipotle then he said well for this price we can get Mexican food closer so ok fine. Here I am going back and forth with all these foods. Long story short it didn’t go well. We argued and got into it. When he’s mad he says hurtful things to me. Well I didn’t go to the place with him to get food. He’s texting me saying “I love you but I don’t like you as a person”
I had a big feeling he didn’t like me. For a long time now. He doesn’t like me. It kinda hurts my feelings now that it’s confirmed. Now I’m wondering where to go from here? Like he loves me but don’t like me. You guys he meant this. His actions show it, everything. Tbh with you it’s been really hard functioning in an environment where a person took maybe a year or so to realize and come to terms he don’t like me.
Why would he want sex from me then? How can he function in a relationship where he don’t like his own partner? He’s not trapped with me. But if I go to move out he will change his mind. I just really don’t understand his mindset on this. Like someone please help because I feel like I’m going crazy now. Does this mean I’m single? I’m asking because idk if that was his way of ending it with me.
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