AITA for "stealing"

I went with my family to an Airbnb a couple weeks ago. It was a little vacation to destress and they had a kids play room with tons of toys. When it was time to leave I noticed my daughter snuck a few toys into her backpack. I told her she couldn't take them but she threw a fit. She's 5 and has been having tantrums from hell lately. I figured they wouldn't miss a few toys. These play rooms were STOCKED with toys. So I let her. A couple days after we left the host reached out to me and said they noticed a few toys were missing and sometimes kids take them by mistake and asked for them back. That means they went and counted ALL those toys. That's weird. I'm not sure why but I decided not to reply. Airbnb let's you leave a review within 14 days of your visit. I left a good review. Today is the 13th day and they left a review saying we stole toys from them. I thought that was such an overreaction. I mean they had so many toys. But because of that review they suspended my account on Airbnb. I understand that yes we took them and that was wrong but I didn't think they would notice. Again they had so many toys. Why do they care that my daughter took 3. Also what if it was a situation where kids took the toys and parents didn't know? They would have painted a parent as a thief and gotten their account suspended.