Annoyed

Often times I have to remind my child’s father that our toddler needs her butt changed. I usually have the newborn since I can’t put her down or she’ll cry and he’ll say “I’ll do it in a little bit” like .. ? NO, do it now so then I’ll have to put the newborn down while she cries until I can pick her back up. I just don’t understand why I have to TELL him especially since he doesn’t change the newborns butt (he says it’s hard because she stretches out) but its like I’m changing 2 butts around the clock endlessly the least you can do is change one of their diapers consistently. I changed her before I left home, came back & he hadn’t changed her in 4 hrs … He says I’m overreacting but you can’t let their dirty diapers sit on their butt. It’s starting to feel like neglect and it isn’t sitting well with me. How do you even have a conversation about something like this that he knows he’s suppose to do??

EDIT: Not here for dumb ass questions asking why I had another child with him, I’m sick of people asking other women that question on this app practically trying to blame women and not the incapable man. He clearly did not act this way before I had a second child or I definitely wouldn’t have expanded my family with him. Thanks.