Husband cheating?

Question

My husband watches rimming on porn, but I don’t do that never have before. He has never told me he likes that. He doesn’t know I saw him watching it. Does that mean he’s cheating? I mean wtf does he get off on that?!? Someone must be doing it to him? And no he’s not gay.

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Not always what you watch in porn is what you want done to you. Sometimes it’s just curiosity you stumble across something and think huh. That’s different. Then it’s wonder what that would feel like. Or maybe someone from his past experienced that with him. Sometimes it just something different that sparks your interest. Or you find the people attractive. Or you wish it would happen to you. Something familiar for all you know he may have  had an experience as a child or teen or college by force or experimenting. Not everyone talks about everything. Sometimes it’s you get bored and find something else to watch. Sparks an interest. I wouldn’t assume he was gay or cheating. Maybe talk about fantasies. Broadening the experience with sex toys or cosplay dressing up, accents. Roll play. Pretending to be strangers and picking them up on a bad day. Maybe he’s curious. To try pegging or butt plugs or rimming there are straight men that do that too. Experiences with s & m. But you do what you are comfortable with or not at all. Everyone has boundaries and what makes them comfortable or uncomfortable.

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No it doesn't mean anything like that. You're being ridiculous.

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What you watch during self pleasure doesn’t equal what you like or want in bed. 
This does not mean he is cheating.
This has nothing to do with his sexuality.

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Maybe he wants to try that with you, but is too embarrassed or feels weird about bringing it up/asking you? I wouldn’t necessarily jump right to cheating if there are no other red flags. Maybe you can gently bring it up when neither of you is emotional/mad/etc.

Husband cheating?

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