Bartholin gland cyst?

Can someone plss help me?? Ive tried everything from sitz bath w the salt, warm compress to ibrophen, nothings worked. Its been around for 6 months. The cyst is in the inside of my vag inner lip not the outter. It doesnt hurt but its very large to me. Ive went to the hospital my doctor keeps saying it will go away on its own. I first noticed when i FINALLY was ready to move things forward w my boyfriend and it wouldnt go in & everytime he tried to push it in, it hurt so bad. Its really making me depressed because im only 19 & i want to experience everything that i havent. Sometimes i can even feel how big it is when im stsnding. Any home remedies to make it go away fast ?