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I am asking for some advice as I'm totally crushed today.
So my boyfriend of 11 yrs went to his brothers bachelor party last night, came home this am started telling bout the night, and said he went up for his dance and I kinda stepped back and said "umm what" as over 11 yrs we have discussed this as it's not his first time going to a strip club that I don't care he goes cause it's a bachelor party I just don't approve of lap dances it makes me feel less important to him and just plain sick to my stomach. He said it's not a big deal his dad bought him the dance and the song was already half over when he went up!! He said this is BS and went back to sleep. I just don't know what to think or say I'm really hurt. 11 yrs a home and a 3.5 yr old I'm just heartbroken cause he knew I didn't agree with that part.