Not what I want

What does your partner do for you that makes him your teammate? For example, my partner pays my phone bill, car insurance, a bag of weed and some vapes. He just buys me things. Otherwise he doesn’t do anything. Doesn’t want to go anywhere, no movies, no shows like we used to do together, no nothing. It’s sad. Like he wants to have sex but yeah basically I live for free and we exchange food money for the things I choose to want.

He bad mouths me to almost everyone he spends time with to not make himself look like the bad guy. It’s just he’s so lazy. He doesn’t do anything around the house. It’s really sad. When it comes to our child he’s still on his phone. I’m worried if I do leave then what if my son isn’t being watched and ends up hurt because I wasn’t there to be sure he’s ok? I promise I’m not tripping out doesn’t watch my young toddler. It’s been since July he’s been addicted to this game. I’m lonely and really told him like I just can’t do it anymore I want to be able to have a conversation with someone I’m supposed to be spending my life with. I’m not settling for this person either. He doesn’t put the baby to bed because he’s not tired like he has so many excuses I’ll bet if I met someone new would be more helpful then he is! Even a stranger would be more helpful he will just stand there watching me struggle. I can’t leave yet because I really don’t have a place to even go too yet. I just hope soon I do and soon enough I can be a single parent who actually gets free time .

Edit - I have had a talk with him. Several times. He isn’t willing to put the game down. He isn’t capable of having a real life reality relationship. The guy used to be an addict too. He just doesn’t have any self control at all, with anything.