Dating apps/ dating

I’m just gonna write my shit. Dating apps suck. Seriously, I know I’m not perfect at all, but how come it’s so hard to find someone to grow with? I feel like I’m a regular person. Sure I can lose some weight and figure out a better career, but damn. It just seems like I’m never going to be with anyone or that no one really cares about me as a person. This is honestly more of a rant. I know I got to work in myself but i just wish I had someone to talk to . Besides a therapist.