My “situationship” (he tells me he doesn’t have feelings for me but is possessive of me and gets jealous) is abusive. Verbally, mentally/emotionally, sexually, one time physically (he threw something in my direction). But it’s hard to leave him because certain things make it complicated (we work together and I’m worried he’ll use work to lash out at me) so I’ve been trying to think of the safest way to just get away from him. I was starting to just ignore him to test how he would act. At first it was horrible and he freaked out at work. Then a little bit later, he randomly invited me to go out with him and we got food after. He used my fortune from a cookie to tell me that he cares about me and thinks about me,and how I shouldn’t take his anger at work personally. Then the past couple days, he’s confusing because he’ll make try to make me feel special. Like giving me reassurance about other girls and he’ll tell me to take care of myself and stuff, giving me more attention, wants my attention more, but then says we’re “friends just a little extra”. Like what does that even mean??? He told me he wants to be better. And why is he being so nice all of a sudden? I’m worried this means the next cycle of mistreatment will be worse.