I was diagnosed with complete placenta previa and placenta accreta at 18 weeks. Then at 22/23 weeks my OB (not my MFM) told me complete pelvic rest. It’s been almost 4 very long weeks since. lol. My husband has been living the best life since. Literally every other night before bed he’s been requesting blow jobs and hand jobs. The last 3 weeks I’ve been having uncomfortable pressure in my pelvis from the previa that just walking or moving my legs is uncomfortable. Heck rolling over in bed is frustrating. I’ve been told it’s only going to get worse too. Then I’m dealing with the constant stress of “I am going to bleed today?” or “will we make it past 34 weeks?” I go for another scan tomorrow to find out more information as we’ve been in the dark pretty much since being diagnosed. Lots of wait and see.

So as much as I know he has needs I just don’t want to. I’m really uncomfortable, tired, basically jealous and plain not in the mood. He knows I am too. Since finding out I can’t do anything it seems like his sex drive has gone into overdrive. I feel so guilty. I don’t want to be selfish.