I’m a sahm and I know what my job is to care and control the finances of my home. My husband is a WFH call center specialist. He helps me on his breaks and lunch with our kids 2.5 and 7months.

But lately he has been getting sick to the point he can’t work. In the course of 6 months he has been hospitalized about 4 times. And we always get there is nothing wrong. Medically or physically.

The last time he was sick my FIL asked me to take our kids to my parents house while he is in the hospital to take care of him while he is there. I advised him ‘they are out of the state” and he just said tell them to come back.

I asked him if he can help me with them and said “ I don’t know how to take care of them and I have xyz to do. But you have to stay with him.” Well that time left and I stay with the kids do to he wanted me to take the night shift of stay. And he will take the mid day shift. My husband got mad at him asking when was I to sleep do to kids don’t sleep at the same time if I had just gotten a sitter. This was 3-4 weeks ago

Well now he is sick again and he does not want to go to the hospital anymore.

He is throwing up blood like last time. Last time they said they where going to do an endoscopy but apparently it was a lie.

I’m at my wits end. Don’t know what to do, we dont want to call my Fil for what happen last time. My parents can’t drive to me to take the kids I don’t drive to to the city is inconvenient place to drive.I can call an ambulance but I can’t force him to go.