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I don’t see anything wrong with hyphenating their name. But I would try hyphenate the first baby’s name as well so they could match. You do what’s going to keep your mind at ease.
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Same mom and dad but i want to give the second child hyphenated last name . First has his dad’s name. Things have changed drastically from first child to second child . First child he was there every step during pregnancy and birth . Things really changed after birth and he isn’t as present as he was in the beginning . He also has only been to maybe 3 appointments this pregnancy . (High risk so i have a lot) . Sooo i was still going to give baby his last name but i was also going to give mine too . I’m on the fence though because i don’t want one to grow up wondering why they have different last names but the same dad .
*and please no judgey comments*
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I would take the steps of changing the firsts then also.. also just food for thought, I don’t think most men go to all or most appts.. I’ve been pregnant 5x, two miscarriages I’ve found out about alone. We only made a big deal about him seeing our first baby’s ultrasound and first anatomy scan. Our second live birth, we scheduled private ultrasound to learn the gender together. It’s too much of a chore arranging everyone’s schedules to come to my appts as well as other childcare
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Missing the appointments isn’t the biggest thing . He has missed the important appointments . But a lot more has happened that i don’t think i need to get into on here . Also , changing his first name would require his father’s permission because he is on the BC and I’m not sure that that will be an easy feat !
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