Same mom and dad but i want to give the second child hyphenated last name . First has his dad’s name. Things have changed drastically from first child to second child . First child he was there every step during pregnancy and birth . Things really changed after birth and he isn’t as present as he was in the beginning . He also has only been to maybe 3 appointments this pregnancy . (High risk so i have a lot) . Sooo i was still going to give baby his last name but i was also going to give mine too . I’m on the fence though because i don’t want one to grow up wondering why they have different last names but the same dad .

*and please no judgey comments*