I'm tried of him just wanting me for sex

My husband is so fucking annoying. I was holding my husband on the couch. I had his head on my tits. He said after our movie we was going to bed. I asked was he sure he said he didn't know. I laid on the couch thinking be would get on top of me but no. This man bitches if I don't give him sex. He swears he puts effort to get to me to have sex. He will literally tell me he is going in the room and lay there. I go in there we will start talking 10-15 mins. He rubs my pussy and expects me to suck his dick. If I don't suck his dick I'll hear about it for days. Then, if we don't have enough time I'll only suck it a little bit to get him hard. He bitches I didn't do it enough. He wanted kids. I'm 12 weeks pregnant and we have a 2 year old. He is saying I'm always putting kids first. Smfh. I'm supposed to make sure the kids are good. My pussy can't get wet with a 2 year old crying in the next room. My husband is basic. He doesn't make me feel special but he wants me to put effort in. He said he wants to feel wanted. I don't even feel wanted by him. If a man really loved me why would not put me down and talk bad about me if I didn't want to have sex. He tries to pressure me into sex. It's weird. One day I had him use his spit and just fuck me till he nutted to get it over with. I definitely enjoyed sex before he started making me feel I had to do it everyday. Sorry but to me having sex everyday is time consuming and boring. It's all the same moves. Nothing is different. We don't even make out. He smokes and I can't stand it. I'm pregnant shit makes me want to throw up. He told me he didn't care how I felt. Yet this liar told me he was going to quit before the baby gets here. I'm justs super annoyed. Only time he shows me attention is when he wants sex. Other than that no kisses or hugs.