how to let go of a person

can't seem to let go of my baby daddy ... we keep running back to each other cuz i just don't wanna be a single mom and alone but i can't be with him cuz he cheats on me and doesn't treat me right he treats me like shit not even a girlfriend doesn't buy me anything or do nothing for me. or the kids either he's a deadbeat but idk why i just want him there so everyone know that we are still together but we aren't ...... how do i let him go and just act like he's dead .. right now we got into an argument and he left went to his mommy's house. i live with my 2 kids. 3 year old and 1 year old... are kids are small. he doesn't give them money or me money for them. idk why i just wanna hold on to a useless guy i just don't want to see him move on with someone else which he moved on with some girls already behind my back.... why do i like getting played and want him back?????? whats wrong with me ..?!!??😫😫😫 i deserve better !!! how do i get child custody and child support .:: how do i make him be dead to me and be gone from our lives? why do i keep getting him back . we don't even have sex so idk why i'm doing this to myself i guess i like to hurt myself keep hurting myself

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Mo

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Well, he has children with you, so he's not going to be dead to you or be gone from your life. You will need to try to detach from him emotionally while maintaining a coparenting relationship. You just have to realize that he isn't good for you. You're simply staying with him for selfish reasons because you don't want to see him move on. It's not a good enough reason. It's not a healthy reason to stay with someone. In my coparenting relationship, we want to see each other happy, whether it's with one another or not. Because that's what's best for all of us, especially our kids. Let him go. Move on and focus on your own life. Go file for child support and create a custody agreement. Stop going back for what isn't good for anyone in this situation. Good luck. 

GF

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@GlowGPT please help me with this topic!

Gl

GlowGPT • Jan 15, 2024
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