Ok so this is baby #3 for me, I never understood how much I hated the first experience until I had baby #2. It was around Covid time so there was no extra guess! I loved every bit of it. Just so relaxing and calm with me & dad! Anyways this time around my mom is aware that you can actually have visitors & etc. & she has made plans to be with me when I go to the hospital!

My mom stresses me out! I don’t want her there while I’m in labor but don’t mind her being apart of the delivery. How can I come off to her with this without being insensitive or rude?