Narcissistic husband

I told my husband that I just didn’t want a violent man and that he never tried to get help ..I said I didn’t want an angry violent spouse. He said well go find one.... we’ve been apart 3 in a half weeks.. I’m so hurt. I just feel so depressed all the things I went through. He didn’t want to help me heal and change. It just hurts that I wasn’t worth anything to him. I just want to move on and get over him