Since we've had our baby my boyfriend is not interested in me like at all. We stopped having sex at around three months pregnant and baby is about to be 8 months old and things still aren't back to the way they were before... I've tried speaking to him but he just says he's busy with work. But like he's working the same job he's always worked, same hours and it didn't stop us having a healthy sex life before. It's not just that the sex is non existent but it's like we have no connection now. He constantly sleeps in the spare room. How can I fix things if he doesn't want to? This isn't our first baby so I'm confused why he's acting this way. Baby is literally a dream too, sleeps through the night, happy little lady most of the time so it's not like that's a reason either. Do I just keep talking to him and hope he comes around?