Back story, I met this dude though friend in April 2022 she is dating his brother. we hanging out a few times as a group and one night I was meant to go drink with my friend but her and her boyfriend wanted to talk so she wanted to sleep over his, being a good friend I am I offered to go go but she wanted me to come ( I had a feeling she was trying to hook me up with the boyfriends older brother) so I went. I didn’t mind and it was good, I had fun. I like him and we had really deep conversations. The conversation where you feel like your souls are connected. I’m not the type to sleep around but we slept together (kinda his two brothers broke the door in half and cried my eyes out) than we had a big fight bc I only just got out of a relationship and I wasn’t really ready to get back into a new relationship. He saw my cry many times. We stopped talking for a little and we saw each other with other people at a club and we locked eyes and than we couldn’t stop “ bumping into each other” the whole time, always trying to find a reason to come over to talk or something. Than we started talking a lot this was back at the end of 2022, start of 2023 started and I was up in Cairns to look after my uncle house and he informed me he move back to Melbourne. I Iive in Brisbane. After a while We got into a Situationship type thing over the Internet. Then he cut it off bc it was too hard for him when we live so far away and I said I’m happy being friends and we stayed friends. Good friends. Few months go by and He started seeing a girl and one night she messaged me having a go. Out of no where. Which I understand but still I respect people relationships and I don’t flirt or anything with him while they were together. I stepped back completely. I didn’t want to be that girl, you know! Than a week later he said they broke up and we started talking again.. brings us to now he is say stuff like “right person wrong time” “maybe one day you and i will be together, i'm not even joking. i've never met anyone like you who doesn't give up on me” “ i think about having a child with you” “sometimes i just stare at your messages and smile” I’m really confused on what to think or feel bc I have tried so much and now… well I often to come down at Christmas holidays or even a weekend I'm not at study. He doesn't want me to spend unnecessary money. he knows I struggled. He might be coming up in feb to see his little brother but I Dont Know.

He says he wants to see me too..he is 24. he takes care his sister and his mother. alot of my male friends tell me to be careful. he didn't know how to flirt. he doesn't ask for nudes or sex. he is a very awkward person, he gets overwhelmed really easily and quickly too. we haven't spoken in a few days, I texted and called last night but no response he has been working alot to support his mother and his sister and he has brothers always asking for $$. see I don't want to wake him up if he is trying to catch up on sleep or if he just doesn't want to be on his phone be i get that be l do it to but I normally tell people why I'm not on my phone. my notifications are off so I decide when I look at my phone. do I just wait for him to want to talk because I'm depending on calling him. he is really bad at replying. what do I do.