Me and my best friend have been friends for 9 years now…. During the duration of our friendship she has forgotten my birthday every year… celebrates and takes trips with other friends but when I want to plan something I get crickets… Didn’t celebrate or seem excited when I graduated college… oh and not to mention she has a boyfriend who hates me for no reason. About 2 years ago I found out her boyfriend thinks I had something to do with her and him having problems because she went behind his back (I basically got lied on to save face). Her boyfriend also has disrespected me on numerous occasions calling me out of my name making her hang up the phone on me and etc… I left it alone and never spoke up because I’m not in this friendship to be friends with her man. So when I call she never answers she replies oh he’s right here… and only ever talks to me on the phone or ft when he is not around. Recently she had a baby and throughout her entire pregnancy she picked fights with me and she even blamed me for allowing her to keep her baby (makes no sense to me)! She literally texted me she hated me for allowing her to go through with her pregnancy I guess she wanted me to tell her get an abortion but why would I do that that’s not my place nor do I have the heart to ever say something like that (I have been ttc for 10 years no luck and she knows this). I ended up letting her know how it made me feel (it was insensitive and made me uncomfortable). Fast forward she had the baby and it’s been weird ever since she hasn’t shared much and has been bickering with me picking fights with me. Calling me weird because I won’t engage into her back and forth antics… I’m just overly exhausted and I feel bad for giving up but this relationship is draining me! It hurts because I no longer have on the rose colored glasses I see her for who she is and I just feel like I have no other choice. Any advice please