Why is it hard to find a relationship as a promiscuous girl ?

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Being promiscuous has ruined my romantic relationships and made it is making it hard to find a genuine relationship. I want to marry and have kids one day and people always think bad of me. I’m such a nice girl but I’m very promiscuous. What does my future hold for me now? I’m so upset.

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Girl. Get some therapy. The first post, I got. But now, this is getting weird. 
I cannot be the only seeing the influx of fake posts. This has to be one of them.

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Have you considered therapy for your obsession with this because this is tiring to see constantly

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How many times are you going to post about this?  There’s nothing wrong with having a healthy sex life or enjoying sex but maybe you need to consider only sleeping with one person at a time and not divulging your past to people.

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I dont think promiscuity and marriage necessarily go hand in hand… like, theyre literally in direct opposition to eachother.

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Why are you telling people? They don’t need to know how many people you have had sex with. No one needs to know that. The only thing they need to know is if you have any stds or anything. But the amount of people you had sex with is NO ONES BUSINESS. also, you should seek therapy. I’ve seen you post about this and why women won’t be your friend many times now. I’m not saying this to be rude. It’s just seems obsessive and I can’t imagine how much you talk about it in real daily life.

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Then change things. Take the time to get to know them rather than hopping in bed quickly. You have what they want. You control the situation. You dictate the relationship. Tell them upfront. I don’t do hook ups, I don’t do friends with benefits, I’m a relationship person and if you aren’t down with that then I don’t waste my time. If they leave good, that’s all they wanted and didn’t waste your time. Your life has value. Work on your self esteem, self worth and value yourself. Wait for someone who values and respects you as well. If he just wants sex that will be revealed quickly. Let them go. Don’t go for bad boys or broken birds that need to be fixed, guys that need to be mothered, or any other issues. Wait for a guy that has his life together. Career. Place of his own. His mental health is good. Responsible. Etc. not someone that you have to fix or carry or drain you in any way.

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With all these posts I’m beginning to think you’re not “promiscuous,” but a sex addict. I think you need to get help. Having sex with every guy you meet isn’t healthy.

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Have you considered a nonmonogamous relationship? Many people live this lifestyle and are open to multiple relationships, partners, hookups, etc. Might be right for you!

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the guys you’re going after probably want a monogamous relationship and if you’re having sex with other people, they’re obviously not going to be into that. If you find a guy that you like, stop sleeping around and see how it goes with him. They’re going to see it as disrespect if you’re going out with them and still having sex with other people and they’re going to cut you off

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Do you change your behavior when In a relationship or continue to seek sexual relationships outside your own? Because that could be why you’re finding it hard to get it keep a relationship .

Why is it hard to find a relationship as a promiscuous girl ?

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