To whoever needs to hear it

I have seen so many posts about the audacity of their partners and it makes me so sad.

My husband and I met when I was 14 and he was 16 in a pen pal project. He was in the UK, I was US. We talked everyday for 4 years. He came over when ai graduated high school and then we traveled back and forth (only had enough money for plane tickets) for over a year every few months.

We got married and went through the immigration process and he finally after almost 4 years got his citizenship last year…

This man has NEVER, even as a joke called me any kind of name…. Not even dumb or stupid…. He constantly does for me and me for him. But he is so attentive, always thinks I’m doing too much. Is so comforting and supportive. My only complaint is he’s a loud chewer 🤣

Anyway what I’m trying to say is that “IF HE WANTED TO HE WOULD” some of you are with men and asking questions about if that behavior is normal or acceptable and the answer is no. YOU DESERVE MORE. YOU DESERVE BETTER.

Don’t allow your partners to treat you like a second class citizen. Don’t let men like this father children who will raise them to act and treat others just like that.

Stay strong and stick up for yourself and please please ask for help when you need it!

We are all capable and deserving of love and affection and respect.

I just thought some people would need to hear it.