Me and my partner met when we were 10/11. He asked me out when we were 13/14 (2016). We had our first daughter 5 years later and another daughter 2 years later. I’m 8 months pp and he has decided to tell me now that he basically never wanted to be in a serious relationship. When our first daughter was 9 months we decided to try for another baby. Fast forward 6 months I got pregnant and had a miscarriage 7 weeks in. A month after that he left me for a week and then decided he wanted me back. And then I found out I was pregnant a week after he came back.

He says he wants to leave again but feels bad for me cause I’ll be left dealing with both kids majority of the time and he knows that my family will all try help me (he knows I get really overwhelmed by them all just wanting to be there for the kids).

I finally sat and talked with him last night after a month of just being so confused (he told me the day before I had to go to his family’s Christmas celebration and fake a happy smile) he said he thinks he’s bored of me and just wants to see what sex is like with other people. He said maybe that’s all he needs then he might come back to me. I know it’s stupid but I thought after 8 years and all the shit we have been through I had found the person I want to spend the rest of my life with and we didn’t need to have sex with other people😂 we were obviously both our firsts and have never been with anyone else.

I guess I just want some advice or support. We haven’t told anyone he wants to leave because everyone has been asking when he’s going to propose and honestly every time someone does my heart feels like it’s breaking and I just want to win him back because I love him so fucking much and the family we have created. I just hate this and I’m honestly just in auto pilot praying he changes his mind.