Am I entitled to feel like this ?
My bf and I have been in a relationship for almost3 years now.
We semi live together since he still has a place he rented before we were together. So he likes to hang out there most of the time.
What bothers me for a whilllle now is that he never takes me there with him. He never asks me to join him there just to spend some time together. We barely do since his got a challenging job and myself aswell. But I always feel like I have to beg for him to spend even a few mins with me especially during the day.
Hell get off work. Come “see” me and then leave to his place. Mind you he is always in a hurry to get there. Never asks me along. The few times I went along we were only there for a few minutes and then came to my house.
And when he gets there , at night. He either doesn’t come back to sleep or be by me at all. Or he stays there till very late at night and then wants to come over.
We also have a family farm. Weekends we all go out there. He’s rather choose staying behind then going along with all of us. And it’s not like no one in my family doesn’t love him too!
When I stay behind with him aswell and don’t go out to the farm. He leaves me alone till the late night and doesn’t spend the day with me. It kinda just goes over his head when I mention this to him or brushes it off.
Like honestly. He can’t just leave me by myself. It doesn’t feel like a relationship. It feels like he is j hiding me. Cause he has never posted me anywhere. Or so.
Please help. He is a good guy but I’m starting to feel some type of way.
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