My husband and I have been together for 10 years. He’s been battling depression for the last 4 years. He was sleeping all the time, didn’t want to leave the house, and he just wasn’t mentally present for me or our kids. During his mental health struggles I’ve been by his side encouraging him to get help. In the last few months my husband has gotten help and things are getting better. Now that my husband has returned back to his former self he doesn’t seem to want to spend time with me or the kids. He’s “making up for lost time” with all of his friends but refusing to make any effort with me. I get he’s trying to find himself again but what about our family? I’ve spent a lot of time feeling lonely in our marriage and I’m over it. Am I being selfish? Should I give him more time to figure things out? I