So I’ve been talking this guy for couple months. We both have kids. He has a 1 year old I have a two year old. He’s seems to be a really great guy, really sweet and respectful but today I got the biggest red flag. I was on the phone with him and driving in the car with my kid and I mentioned how when kids act like they’re so hungry they never finish their food and he proceeds to say some kids just like to talk and I agreed. And then he says “don’t worry step daddy will finish it” talking to my child. Like wtf. This has completely turned me off regardless of what his intentions were that’s just weird to say especially when I told him how I felt about dating and my child. He knows he will never be around my child until it’s been a year so why even make a comment like that. I immediately got the ick. I keep dating life separate from my child no man has ever been around her accept her dad. And I’m not looking for her to have a step daddy she already has a dad. Ladies what do I do?