I.want to move on (AITA)

So been with my dude for some months 4-5 it was very rocky. Break up and make up. He ran into family issues and he had a death in the fsmiky

It's long distance so I can't reach him physically. My car is shitty and needs work done. I have kids and no one to watch them while I go down 3 hrs t9 see him.

After losing someone close he doesn't talk much. Like going 3 days without texting or talking to me. I keep reaching out. We talk for a little but then it smolders.. nothing happens unless I keep reaching out.

I get he's going through so much but I'm just left on ignore I feel. I feel bad if I move on but he won't open up to me or atleast talk to me.

Hes also gone from calling me babe to dude..

And when I reach out it doesn't last. Wwyd?@Allison: I agree. I feel sad about that realization. It hurts so much bc i did love him but i have to move on.@Allison: yesh it has been rocky the whole time. No more long distance relationships for me.