Any advice

What do I do if a man wants me to feel his absence? Making me know that he is with somebody else while also trying to make me miss him? I don’t miss him but I am missing out on being in a relationship with a man who would be there for me and validate me in this life. I am at an age where love with a man is important, and the motive he has for me isn’t making sense. He is set on a belief that he is always right. We are never always right in life, but he is certain about his ideas on how our relationship should be? He is freeing himself mostly all the time and in response he tells me I can’t do that like how other women can? I am not allowed to naturally be a woman with the right feelings because he thinks he is right. Maybe it’s possible that he is the wrong one? Do you also agree? I find it really hard to experience this at the moment so I would like some friendly advice?