I just wanted to get on here an say I didn’t know there was a group for this on here but I’m so happy I found it. I want to start by saying I am proud of each women here because of our strength we are all in this group and have the courage to be open and talk.

I also am very unsure if any one has been in this situation and i was just wanting some advice and help. And support if that’s okay.

Long story short i was in an abusive relationship for 31/2- 4 years and it was hell a literally living hell.

He choked me so bad I almost lost consciousness and my visision got very blurry, and he stepped on my head attempting to smash it, break my neck and incorrectly put my breaks on too. Claiming he fixed my car he ruined my car literally my first car I bought of of my pocket , and later after soooo much abuse and shame and feeling worthless and almost attempting Suicide a few times. I finally decided to leave and I’m tired of it idont wanna die by him , I won’t I refused and I’m a stubborn hard ass minded person. So just imagine a man anting alllllllll his control … from someone like me he tried to break me and literally break me on top of emotional he wasn’t and didn’t win over me… and after all he’s em done i finally gain courage to call police and fuck what happened to him. Because he’s gotten way with wayyyyy too much and harassing me almost murdering me , attempted to threaten my family members and my twin sister and more but .. by the time new year came 2024 protective order & now arrest and warrant and now were in the court process of putting him away but he’s so good are getting away he’s out on bond and moved close to me. Including my mother 2 mins from him so you can imagine how I might be feeling.

i deserve the proper Love & commitment, supportive honest genuine partner so do all of you beautiful talented and amazing Women. I just I am just needing a bit of support also I just found out me and my partner who adores me so much (Different man) he is the best dad and baby isn’t here yet. But I am just afraid for my child now and myself and I just am needing some support and love and my mental space has been sadly trying to decline , this is our first kid and now my main thought is to keep my baby safe no matter what. Til dirt bag is put away by buying a new house right inbetween we’re good.

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Most dangerous times for women is when pregnant by the abuser even someone else. They feel betrayed( there wrong) but OUR BODIES ARE NOT THE ABUSERS PROPERTY. So take care of yourself ladies best you can from now on. Stay safe and be good. 😌