Relationship advice please x

I need help and guidance 🥺 I’m having major relationship doubts and I told my partner of 3 years that we should take a break from the relationship as I’ve been feeling unhappy and I need to evaluate things.

I can’t tell if im being dramatic and overthinking everything he does and how he acts towards me. There are certain things that started off little problems that I could brush off but eventually became a bigger deal to me. Examples- he NEVER compliments me even when im all dressed up. I’ve talked to him about it and told him how it makes me feel and he still doesn’t give me any compliments which makes me feel like he’s not attracted to me.

He is constantly a smart ass to me, I can’t ask him a simple question without him making me feel stupid all the time. I feel like I can’t talk to him.

I also feel as tho I can’t have let loose and have fun with him. There’s many more things that make me upset and I communicate to him all the time and he gets defensive and not willing to change.

I don’t know what to do because I love him so much and I’m so upset that it has come to this, we also just bought land together.

I need guidance - what should I do?

Thanks girls.