Same partner gor 25+ years back when we got together in 1998 he was my first and has been my only man ive been wit over the years we had at kid in 1999 and the cheating went on n off for 18 years but so.comehow always worked past it well in 2020 our lid mo ed on her own which for the first time we vould work on r relationship now that im i. My 40s i fell cluelrss in bed he complaints that i font do yhis or that leaving him wt blu balls also he rarely touches me Also in order for him to vet off we have to watch porn but i geellike he wants me to tRy tbisn that but dont or rarely excite me i gomonyhs without a oragasm for months wece talked n ive told him how him giving me oralmakes me .ut and fast but he says there nothing wrong yet i.com licky if i get that one time a year any suggestions on how to makethings better in bed for him n i