I’m in a poly relationship. I’m married for 8 years and in a serious relationship with my bf for 4 years. I was on the pill, but got pregnant by my bf. I’m now about 20 weeks.

I guess I didn’t realize how awful people view me as a person due to my relationship choice. Even my own family. I’m just simply in love with both of them. We don’t like flaunt it or throw it in peoples faces that I’m with both of them. We are pretty private about it. But hearing that people call me a whore a lot really hurts my feelings. People call me his baby momma too and I really don’t like that. I know what people here are gonna think and say too, so I guess lay in on me. I know how people view relationships that aren’t “normal”. I just wish people would simply see me as I am, just a woman that found love twice in the same life time and that we are all happy.